Get Rid Of Negativity
LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE: Get Rid of Negativity
NEGATIVITY Never Made Anything Better
by Darryl L. Mobley, Life Coach
One Thing To Stop or Start
STOP. Stay away from those who are perpetually negative…about life, their boy/girlfriend, work, your goals, their goals, politics, the weather, you… anything! These people sap your emotions and waste your most precious resource – your time. They are vultures in the way that they peck, peck, peck away at your dreams, energy, opportunities…until they strip you of your time, and your belief in yourself. You cannot change them. Changing yourself is hard enough. In truth, most negative people do NOT want to change themselves. They DO want to change your positivity into their negativity. They want you to fail.
Before Your Head Hits The Pillow Tonight
Who is the person that brings life to your life? Tell them that they do, before your head hits the pillow tonight.
A Book I’m Reading
I am reading The Memoirs of Henry O. Flipper. This book inspires me because it is the story of adventure, taking the road less traveled, challenges, unfairness, disillusion, disappointments, restored reputation, and ultimately, greatness. That’s a full life! Henry Ossian Flipper was a cultural trailblazer, an amazing person, and he lived a truly unbelievable life. I strongly encourage you to read this book and allow it to wash over you. Your perspective on life will be elevated.
A Quote I’m Embracing
“One of the most courageous things you can do is identify yourself, know who you are, what you believe in and where you want to go.” I’m embracing this quote by Sheila Murray Bethel by writing down who I am, what I believe in, and detailing where I want to take my life. Join me. Together, we win.
A Worldview I’m Challenging
We invest too much time in people – who seem to have as their major goal – bringing negativity into our lives. These people are “dream stealers.” I say it’s time to thin the herd and let into your life only those people who add positive value to your life. Doing this will clear your mind – – freeing up intellectual space, as well as return to you time that has been getting taken from you by the dream stealers. You get what you put up with. Stop putting up with negative people Live to your goals. Love to your dreams. Do the work.
Something to Sing
There is a song that I’ve sung out loud more than all other songs combined over the past several years. (My kids will back me up on that claim.) That song is “Happy” by Pharrell Williams. This song is amazingly catchy and is the type of song that makes you dance and sing along. Click to see the video>>> Because I’m happy, clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth. BTW – have I told you that I only listen to positive songs, read positive books, and watch positive movies? (Yes. I know that I have.) Why? Because stuff in equals stuff out. I’m always trying to program myself to be positive. How about you?
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